Don’t know what to do

Been with my OH 5 Years in March. His mum passed away a couple years before so never got the chance to meet her. His godmother has kinda taken the role of mum since she passed away which I absolutely loved her for. His god mother and I always got on, never had any issues. We would visit her weekly, helped her redecorate her room take shopping and on outings.

THEN in July 2016 we got engaged and that was start of all the problems. All of a sudden I’m a rude controlling girlfriend who she doesn’t like. My OH can apparently do better. I’m ugly, fat, etc. His sister tried taking to her say saying that she being silly and acting jealous. That made no difference as she just continued to bitch about me.

My OH tried taking to her but she doesn’t want to talk about it. I told him I don’t want to come between the two of Jen that he should continue to visit her as he use to.

I have seen her once in past 18 months and she acted like I was ghost. Like I wasn’t there. I made up my mind at that point I was done. Don’t know if I could ever forgive her.

We are now 6 1/2 months pregnant with our first baby and I wouldn’t use the word worried but I don’t know what to expect when the baby arrives. I said to my OH before we got pregnant and at the start of the pregnancy I have no problem her see the baby. He was like well that ain’t gonna work cause imm not gonna travel all the with a baby and not being you. I made it clear to him I ain’t stepping in her house and have nothing to say to her.

Now I’m getting to the point where I don’t want my baby to even go there. If she can’t except me, why would she accept my baby. When my OH goes to visit her she doesn’t even ask him if the baby is doing okay or what can she get for the baby ( not that I want anything) I just feel like I don’t want someone like that as part of my baby’s life.

I don’t want to hurt my OH. But my baby comes first and doesn’t deserve to meet her when she’s born