Is it better to lose your virginity to someone with experience?

Question

Im 17 and I’m finally ready to make the big step. My boyfriend has slept with a few girls, but I’m a virgin. I don’t have any problems with his past but I’m just wondering if it’s better to lose your virginity to someone that isn’t inexperienced.

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Theirs pros and cons to both, I would say whoever your comfortable with. If it is both of your first then you get to figure it out together but if one is experienced it will still be new and experimental but they may lead if you want them to. The most important thing is that you want to and are comfortable with whoever it’s with.

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I lost my virginity to a guy who had experience. I feel that as girls take longer than guys to get off and we are more complicated that having someone who knew what they were doing and knew how to read my reactions meant I didn't have to worry about faking or whether or not he knew what he was doing. To me, it just felt right! It may be different for other girls but that's my personal preference 😘

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It doesn't matter how much experience someone has.  You should lose your virginity to someone you love or you will regret it down the line.  That's what is important.

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As long as you feel comfortable it’s fine either way. If inexperienced you figure it out together and have awkward moments that just make you smile and laugh. And with someone that is more experienced you have someone that can take the lead and can guid you through it.
My girlfriend and I were each other’s first and I feel so unbelievably comfortable with her I’m not afraid to be awkward during sex with her. <3 we took slow steps and it was so loving and amazing the awkward moments that occurred from being each other’s first only enhanced it. Since we were so comfortable with each other we were able to laugh together and then continue. <3
So I think as long as you are comfortable with the person that it is that is all that matters. While there will definitely be more awkward moments with two people that are inexperienced there will still be some awkward moments with someone who is experienced.
People aren’t perfect and neither is sex. :3

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i love my virginity to someone who had already had sex, and it went well. he was incredible about it and him having experience made me feel more comfortable since at least one of us knew what we were doing. there are pros and cons to both sides though. it’s not so important if they’re experienced or not, so much as if this is the person you want to lose your virginity to.