so my fiance got drunk last night and was being really rude to me when I was trying to help him, like really rude. He started telling me that I didn't care about him at all and that I wasn't taking good enough care of him. It all started cause he passed out in the kitchen. So I did what I always do. I picked up all his stuff and put it where it goes so he could find it in the morning, made up the bed for him, put his alcohol away, and was trying to get him to bed instead of the kitchen. He gets up yelling at me that I'm being rude and I said that I was just trying to take care of him. That is when I got, "Well you are not doing a very good job at that." So I let him be. Then he tries to make more to drink and I told him that he has had enough. He makes a drink anyway and starts at me again saying, " why don't you just leave me there, it's not like you care about me." mind you, every time he drinks I do this for him, pick up his stuff, make sure he can sleep comfortable and get him in bed after he passes out. He usually isn't mean. so, I was really upset and didn't want to argue with him so I went to my sister's house for a while. when I got home there was this...

He had destroyed the porch, kitchen, and living room. He was asleep when I got back so I cleaned up his mess and crawled into bed. 2 o'clock this morning he wakes up and is still mad at me so we talk. He said that he was extremely mad at me because I left and that I abandoned him and that's why he did what he did. I told him that I had picked everything up and that didn't seem to have any affect on him. I did it because I love him but, i don't know what to do anymore.