Should you have sex to keep a relationship?

Question

My boyfriend and I have two kids and it comes down to me to take care of the baby. He doesn’t like to take care of babies. He stresses out. So i get stressed and am never in the mood. Should i force myself to have sex to keep our relationship? I tell him how it will get better as they get older but he’s getting frustrated about how I never give him sex everyday.

Answer

LEAVE HIM. Sex will only lead to more babies for you to raise. What’s the point in hangin on dead weight if you’re already raising the kids alone.
Btw it does not get easier so don’t even lie and tell him that. Parenting never gets easier. I’d honestly just leave before another baby gets involved

Answer

No, if you don't want sex you shouldn't force yourself. Sex won't solve the problem at its root unless that's the only problem. You're stressed out and you have every right to have your feelings and to not want to have sex because of them.

Answer

eh, I believe intimacy is alright for both parties in a relationship, I'm my marriage, yes, I'll roll over and do it even if it's the literal last thing I feel like because I know it's how my husband feels a connection, BUT, my husband also makes sure to help me as much as he's able, and see MY needs are met in various ways, even when HE doesn't feel like it (very often that means changing poopy diapers and distracting kids so I .ca on shower in peace, or running out in the cold to get me chocolate)

Answer

i would leave him.

Should you have sex to keep a relationship?

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