Am I doing something wrong?

I see all these posts about moms who are potty training their lo and are excited to see when their little one poops in the potty.

I am a ftm and haven’t been to up to date with potty training my 19 month old because I don’t feel as though she’s ready. But her poop is the consistency of thick peanut butter. So, my question for the moms who are potty training, is your lo poop fully formed into turds and you just dump it in the toilet and clean the potty or are you (in my case), literally scrapping out the poop out each time they go? Cause like I said, my lo poop is the consistency of peanut butter. We don’t have a washer or dryer where we live and would have to go to the community laundry mat every time I wipe her poop out with a wash cloth? Is their a better way? She doesn’t have any food allergies so I’m not sure if/when her poop will be more formed. This is a serious post. I’m clueless here....