my husband just started working at a fast food joint. he worked two days in a row, without showering. and he keeps putting off showering, now till tomorrow morning. the 3 day old grease smell is fucking killing me. and i know he’s going to want to have sex tonight...luckily last night i fell asleep early but idk what i’m gonna do to try to avoid it tonight....ive been telling him he needs to shower every day...if i tell him i don’t want sex till he showers he’ll get super upset and angry with me...lord help me 😫

update: i had forgotten to do laundry until like 9 pm so that gave me a few hours to procrastinate and thankfully he fell asleep while i was waiting to switch the laundry. once he showers in the morning i am going to be on his ass about showering. i believe he’s been in a bit of a depression since we’ve been struggling financially but it is time to get his act together where hygiene is concerned. i just have a hard time telling him he needs to shower or brush his teeth without him getting offended. i personally would like to know if i stink i’m just sayin 🤷🏻‍♀️ any advice on how to help him with this is appreciated.