People tell me they think it's weird that my husband and I never fight. That couples who really care and love each other are the ones who fight the most.

I personally disagree with that mind set and don't think its healthy.

The reason my husband and I have never fought (literally never) is because we both know how to control our anger (when it comes to each other any way) and we always take each others feelings into consideration. When ever one of us gets angery we don't just start spewing words, we let the situation die down, let one another have some peace and then address the situation once we've both had time to process.

We do this because we don't want to say things we don't mean just because we're mad, we also try to see things from each others point of view, and we want to see if there's just been some form of miss communication along the line.

So what's your view on fighting with ones significant other?