So I got on the pill around 16/17 when my mother found out I was sexually active. She called the OB office without me knowing but I wanted to get on birth control anyway so I went. I assume she must have told them I was sexually active because they didn't ask during the appointment but told me they always do pelvic exams prior to getting "young girls on contraceptive" to ensure you're disease free and everything looks ok physically. But as more and more friends got on it no one else had to get a pelvic exam? One girl even went to the same OB as me? WTF? Did my mom tell them something?