Nobody tells this bitch what to do.

The first guy sounds okay other than craving attention. That sounds annoying. In terms of money, that’s just very dependent on individual situations. I couldn’t be with a controlling person. I don’t care how rich. I’d rather be living paycheck to paycheck than having to answer to someone who sees me as lesser. I’d honestly just prefer to be alone than unhappy in some way. I can be happy by myself.

If the guy is broke bc he just got laid off or something like that, then I pick that one bc. But if he's broke bc he's lazy and spends all his money on weed and video games, then I'll go with neither 🤷🏽

That broke dude better be on the up and up getting his shit together. I'm too grown to be dealing with young, dumb, broke dudes🙅♀️

Depends on why the guy is broke. If it is because he is lazy or so unreliable he can’t hold down a job, then no I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone like that. I also wouldn’t be in a relationship with the rich asshole. I’d rather be alone personally. 🤷🏻♀️

I put none of the above.. but it depends. Like, how broke are we talking? I promised myself I would never financially support a man. (For extended periods of time. Like if my fiancé lost his job and I needed to pay the bills while he looks for another job, that’s one thing. Or if he gets seriously hurt and can not work, etc.) .. but I couldn’t be with a man that just didn’t want a job, or couldn’t contribute to any bills, childcare expenses, etc.

I had the rich man. I married the broke dude. I’d rather be loved and happy, and struggle a bit financially than go back to the 6,000 square foot prison cell where I wasn’t sure when I was going to be hurt or if this was the time he was going to go too far and kill me.

My husband isn’t rich, nor was he when we got together. But he made me happy, he wanted to be a father to my daughter and wanted to be a husband for me.. The best thing my husband ever did- when we first met I was with another guy... we had a horrible fight for I was leaving him. He was cruel and hurtful. My husband, at the time was just my friend. I was in his car and was crying. I keep apologizing. That I just needed a min. He looked at me and said- what type of man would I be to not be here when ur upset! YOU ARE UPSET, YOU ARE HURT! You didn’t hurt yourself, it’s ok to be sad, it’s ok to cry. I can wait till you are ready to talk to me. For now, I’ll just sit and be here for you. Let me know what I can do.. until then I’ll be right here ready to listen.... No one had been there like that. Where I wasn’t bothering him at all. He WANTED to be there.. he WANTED to support me. Money had nothing to do with it. He was there when I needed it most. And because he wanted to be there when I needed it most!

So like a healthy relationship or an abusive one? uhh

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Would u be with a guy that’s broke but pays attention to detail and craves ur attention or a rich man that controls your every move but gives ueverything u ever want or need?

Shev • Tue, Jan 23

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