so im a sahm, my so works and im at home with my one year old. i get that hes tired from work and all, but that doesnt give him a reason to be lazy at home. i hate that i have to keep picking up after him like i do with my 1 yr old, hes not a baby hes a grown man. like get it together. and he doesnt offer any help, he sees me busting my ass at night doing all these things, making him lunch, cleaning, putting our little one to bed and hes just there playing on his ps4 it takes me to have a meltdown for him to be like what do you need help in. ugh its so overwhelming. im losing it man im losing it. and now i just hate when he comes up to me and asks me what i need help with when theres clearly lots to do around him. i wish i didnt have to tell him what to do like hes some kind of child. hes a adult these things should just come naturally. 😭 sorry i just had to vent a bit 😥