Me and my ex officially broke up last November. But my feelings for him died down through the entire 2017 year (when we were on a break) so breaking up in November was only a dragged out date. It was meant to happen & should happened earlier. He wasn’t really being affectionate like I liked (My love language are words and physical touch) and I felt more of a friend to him. B/c when I would do gf things (seeming him more, holding his hand) it would seem like I’m being a burden. I let him go.

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So Dec 2 I met a guy. We FT, talk, & text. We’ve had sex. He’s been very interested in me from the get go. He has told me one day he wants me to be his gf. I am interested in him. I like being around him. He is affectionate with physical touch and I like that, especially b/c I wasn’t getting it from my ex.

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The guy I met stimulates me more physically (which is normal b/c we just met. The infatuation is obviously there). But my ex stimulated me more mentally, emotionally, and spiritually not physically. Keep in mind I was with my ex for 2 years (1 yr if you take away the break) so we’ve had time to develop other connections besides physical.

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The two men are COMPLETE opposites. What one lacks the other one excels. I want to see where things go with this new man. He comes from a rougher background but I don’t let that deter me from him b/c he’s not who he looks like. However, he’s run into the law and got into trouble and he seems secretive when it comes to his phone (but imo I shouldn’t expect much b/c we’re not together but for me I take how you act when we’re just talking like how you’d act in a relationship).

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Anyway, my ex just got his own place and I feel like it would be a good change b/c we’d be able to spend more alone together and go things couple should do. Should I start over with him or continue what I have with the other man?

THOUGHTS? OPINIONS?