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My boyfriend and I have had sex several times, since October 2017, but the past 3 times he’s been unable to get hard, or it goes unhard very quickly? He said that it’s nothing and this happens sometimes but I’m feeling so self conscious about myself and my body because of it and all I really do after it all is just cry. Any advice ladies, anyone been through this?

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everyone who has a man has gone through this. sometimes the mind is willing but the flesh is tired.
don't get too down. it happens sometimes

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Went through the same exact thing with my boyfriend

I felt like he wasn’t attracted to me anymore and he said the same thing “it happens sometimes” but I wasn’t believing that...

after about 2 weeks he was back at it

he thought maybe it was all the stress of work just getting to him... I believed him this time since he was working 6 days a week all 10-12 hour shifts he was tired 24/7 from work... ended up happening again

this time I was like okay buddy tf is going on do you not like my body anymore!!! Tf is your problem you cheating!! He denied it all

Woke up in the middle of the night cuz something woke me up I thought it was an earthquake happening...

turns out this man is jacking off!!! I was pissed tf off!! Like oh hell no this man is watching porn!! He’s watching some random bitches fucking but can’t even get hard enough to fuck me!!!

I had to rub my eyes to see correctly but he was beating his meat to videos and pictures of me!!!

He was so scared when he saw I was awake he nearly chucked his phone at the TV lol he thought I was gonna be pissed off but I mean I was flattered lol he said he didn’t wanna wake me up I looked too tired... we found out the reason he couldn’t stay hard for too long.. he admitted he was yankin his meat at work to pics of me as well as at night lol 😂😂💀💀

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my boyfriend goes though stages like that too. dont take it personally, it literally just happens for no reason 😁

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Very rarely does it have anything to do with how turned on they are, usually it's just stuff going on in their life, their brain isn't in it, they're stressed out, etc

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It's most likely fatigue, stress,'or diet. Don't worry about it being you, it does happen!

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