So I posted on here not too long ago that I’ve been with my husband for almost 8 years and that he’s only ever gotten me off twice. I was told that I need to communicate more to him about what I want so I can help him(the reason I kept it from him was because I was afraid of hurting his ego). So I’ve started talking to him about that and he admitted that in the last 8 years he’s never known whether or not it has ever happened. He’s never bothered to ask or try to figure out either, he’s just been fine with not knowing!! Wtf?! Yes, it is my fault for lack of communication BUT as a partner wouldn’t you want to know if you’re satisfying your SO or not?!🤦🏼‍♀️