Sex after pregnancy

Okay ladies, I have been very critical of my body about sex after pregnancy. My little girl gave me stretch marks from HELL, and I literally won’t have sex with him unless the lights are off 🤦‍♂️ he said he doesn’t care and that he says he loves it because it brought our little girl into the world, but guys HOW do I get over them??? Also sex kind of hurts and I’m 9 weeks PP :/ any ideas to help a sister out?? Pic of me and the man I love in our maternity pics!