we have known each other for 10 years and I dont quite understand what he’s trying to say?

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Sounds like he is saying that he finds you attractive physically and he wouldnt mind seeing you naked but it's not essential. & sex isnt controlling his mind like it used to that he enjoys having your company but I personally think by his wording he's full of crap because he's elaborating this too much instead of him saying or talking about nonphysical qualities in you or attraction towards other things he likes in you. Plus he sounds like a character on Dawson's Creek. He could break it down into simpler terms instead of trying to manipulate you with words.

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for what I understood... he is saying that he had always been sexually attracted to you and before he couldn't have contained this desire and all he wanted was sex but now he has worked on it can control himself and enjoy your company without wanting/ thinking about you sexually

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Lol he’s trying to say he wants to bang you, but he’s doing mental gymnastics about it in his head.

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Maybe he felt intimidated by your looks! Cuz you must look good girl! Maybe now instead of knowing you for what you look like, he knows you for YOU and doesn’t care what you look like outside

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...ask him?

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He used to want sex from you. Now he doesn't.

we have known each other for 10 years and I dont quite understand what he’s trying to say?

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