My guy is dealing with a lot emotionally and mentally.. Too much to discuss. But he has deep rooted pain and anger issues. I broke up with him because it seemed he wasn’t serious. As time went on, we recognized we genuinely love each other so we started hanging out again like when we were together. When I asked him about getting back together, he said he needs to get himself together to be in a healthy and honest relationship with anybody and he needs to seek help. He begin breaking down crying and saying how he wants to be with me but can’t give me what I want right now. At the same time he doesn’t want to lose me in his life because he genuinely loves me but wants to better himself as a man before being in a relationship again. We ended up crying in each other’s arms because we didn’t want to lose each other. Now I’m confused. I don’t want to just abandon the man I love which will ultimately hurt both of us because I want him in my life, but at the same time I want to have a sense of security.