Ok... so I made the decision a couple of weeks ago to leave my boyfriend. I have made plans to move back to my mums house, got a removal van booked and will be telling him when we return from a wedding. He’ll be going away the next day for work so I can have 5 evenings (after work) to pack my stuff, get organised and be ready for the removal guys the following weekend without him causing me any grief.

I discovered him on sex websites a few months ago, the day before I started a new job. I couldn’t face it so brushed it under the carpet but told him it was completely unacceptable. Since I moved in 14 months ago we have had sex 5 times... all instigated by me. That’s the main reason I’m leaving. That and his foul moods and swearing that I’m not prepared to live with for the rest of my life. I’m desperate for a baby but refuse to do it with the wrong person and would rather do it alone.

Question is - I think he still has a tumblr page and every single photo is of a half naked woman doing a variety of things... should I get on there and honey trap him anonymously? I’m thinking that gives me an even more justified reason and I could use that if he gets nasty, threaten to tell his family? What would u all do?