20week Ultrasound RANT!

Yesterday i went in for my 20week ultrasound and of course we wanted to find out the gender as this is our first!

Anyways, the doctor done all the checking and everything came back perfectly good Alhamdulillah. She took her time doing that, however she almost forgot that we wanted to know the gender so my husband reminds her. She only checked for like 20seconds and says ‘looks like a boy as this part is the boy bits’ (she clearly showed it to us but we don’t know what boys and girls part should look like on the screen as the whole scan was zoomed in and blury!) and then she says ‘but i am still unsure’

That left us confused so we go out and complain at the reception (the main guy on duty was around so he heard and went back to the sonographer and double checked with her). She tells him ‘yes its a boy as we saw a penis’

My question is; WHY THE HELL DID SHE LEAVE US CONFUSED???? She didn’t even check the bits properly.. I’m happy with boy or a girl but I’m just upset that she had to keep us confused. I dno if we should believe her or not.. I don’t get anymore ultrasounds😫