Venting about names

My husband and I are having a boy. Yay! We’ve had 2 names picked out, one we (I ) like way more then the other. Our friends are having a son the month before us and are naming their son that name. I’m just annoyed because I really want that name. I know I wouldn’t have a problem with our sons having the same name but they would and i don’t want to ruin a friendship over it. Husband says he’s always told his friends that name so he gets first dibs but I don’t want to piss them off so I feel like I’m settling with the second name. What would you do?