Ok so I had horrible diarrhea and cramps. Then I had greenish mucus and then blood in my bm. Not like bloody type but red blobs mixed in bm. I happened to notice it in a regular bowel movement (bm). And then today I had clear snot when I wiped after feeling like I needed to go. My history with my bm is between constipated 90 percent of the time. I can have between hard to large to pass to small balls like bm. It took me from Monday (with diarrhea) to Friday before having another bm and that was with the blood and greenish mucus. Before all this I started noticing fat like stuff when I wiped and then mixed in bm. Should I be worried I don’t have insurance and kinda scared. If I can go every other day it’s great. But usually days go by before I have to go. Sometimes I can go everyday and that’s great but when I can’t I feel backed up. I am so used to feeling backed up that it doesn’t really bother me. When I was younger I am 23 now but in my childhood and preteen years. I would have diarrhea when I had to much dairy. Now I don’t have any problems but I suppose it’s because I know how much dairy I can handle. I don’t really consume but maybe a yogurt and ice cream every so often. My 5 year old seems to have a normal digestive system. But with not going every day. He poops between every day to every two three days. That’s normal for him since he has been off the boob( breastfeed till 2 1/2). With me though I have noticed I feel puffy like I feel like I gained weight this month. My period was 9 days late and that was so out of my normal. And the fact it only lasted 3 days usually 4/5 days is how long af sticks around. I thought I was pregnant but then 20 pt later all neg then af came and went. During my ovulation what I thought it was have no clue I was sick 104 temp one occasion of diarrhea and just horrible like flu. My son had it gave it to me but he had more diarrhea then I. So I am figuring being sick made me ovulate late or not at all. And then stress with financials and my son having surgery 3days before af was supposed to show. Those two things just set me back big time sickness and stress is going to be the death of me. Ds just started pre-K in aug and since then he has missed more days of school then he was present for. My amazing husband and I got married sept 23 2017. We were all sick with a flu like cold and made our wedding night miserable had my sons stuff packed ready to go to hospital since he was very lethargic and had a jumping temp to 105.4. Very dangerous for any 5 year old but with my son he has had seizures at 18 months till 24 months. With 102.1 temp and I had to give him cpr the first time. Do you think with my son constantly getting sick from his school mates it’s just a bug in my stomach or something. Or is it something just with me like ibs or crohn’s or diverticulitis. Diverticulitis is what my grandma had and had to have part of her intestines or gallbladder removed can’t remember. But I remember he always having to run to bathroom but wouldn’t make it and had to take change of clothes everywhere she went. My uncle also has issues but he was adopted so hereditary I can’t really say. I know my mother had or had some issues before but no idea what. I am scared bc I am not one to talk about my bm nor pass gas around anyone not my husband and hardly around my child just bc I have always been shy about things like that. I didn’t even tell my mother I got my first period until 3 month later. I bought my products with money I saved from babysitting. I don’t show my emotions nor express anything honestly. I have no idea what to do. I have never really had anything like blood in my bm other then when it tore my anus after having to put gloves on and basically help my self ease the bm out. I have had occasions of fatty like tissue pass but I figured it was what I had been eating and not going for days or a week. But now it’s like snot or egg white cm. Between yellowish green brown to clear. But the fact that I feel like I need to go just waiting until it ready then I have to go like ASAP or my stomach starts to cramp bad. But I sat on toilet not even had passed and I wiped and clear snot was all I had from my anus. Why? Anyone have issues like me I only mentioned my son to maybe help pinpoint what could be going on. My son has insurance and goes to doc very regularly. But me on other had don’t go to a doc. Last time I went to a doc was in September to have my iud removed since Time way almost up and we wanted to start trying for his first child my second. But if someone with some serious answers or anything that could help or if I am just over thinking it. Or maybe it is something serious like ibs, diverticulitis etc. don’t just say go to doc please I hate doctors and hate discussing my bm or anything.