How does your husband help around the house? My husband gets mad when I ask him to help. He says that I’m nagging because I hate doing housework and I need to step up to my responsibilities. For example, this morning I prepared a full breakfast on the patio; he was all excited about it. Towards the end of breakfast baby began to cry so I asked him to help clear the table and wash the dishes. I’d also began preparing lunch and wanted to put baby to bed for her morning nap. He walked away and sat infront the tv. He stayed there for an hour. I could have left everything right there and attend to the baby but I’m a neat and organized person. When I asked him to help again that is when he started to quarrel.