... when he has no job and no where to go ...

I love him but lately I’ve been more unhappy than happy. I find it difficult to trust him, rely on him, agree on anything, or even be intimate. As badly as I hate to be the type of person to dump someone when they have nothing I just can’t justify staying in a far from perfect situation.

Recently he said I was his dream relationship and he’s always said he wants to get married and have kids with me but we’re just not on the same page anymore. I feel guilty for not feeling the same as him. I know it’ll break his heart.

I’m afraid of him taking everything; my car, house stuff, my money, etc. and becoming violent. He’s done these things in the past. I want to be private and in person when I tell him but I also feel like I need a third person there for backup. I don’t know what to do....