My boyfriend and I are getting really serious, and honestly, I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him, and I know he feels the same way. The thing is, he really wants kids, and I know he would make a great dad. But I hate kids. I don't know why, but I always have, and I've never wanted to have them. As much as I want to want them, I really don't think it'll ever change. We've talked about it because we're not in the business of lying to each other or ourselves, and he doesn't seem nearly as bothered by it. Like we are both still very young and he doesn't see kids for 5+ years, but I feel like the longer he stays with me (which every day I am the luckiest girl alive when I'm his) is another day he's not spending with the woman who will give him the life he wants and deserves. Can anyone relate?