I’m 11 weeks pregnant and my husband does NOTHING to help around the house. We got home from being gone all weekend and I cleaned both bathrooms and straightened up the kitchen while he laid in bed. I had the flu last weekend, and he slept in the guest room. I asked him last week to clean it up, because he left it a mess, and he still hadn’t done it so I did that tonight, too. I work 12 hour shifts and he works Monday-Friday 7am-2pm. He says a mans responsibility is outside work (yard work). I do almost all of the cleaning, laundry, cooking, grocery shopping by myself. I get so irritated, and when I do, he says I’m being a baby.

How do you divide up household chores? Any way to get him to help out more?