My husband and I spent 8 months TTC before he deployed in November. We found out we were pregnant right before he deployed and had a miscarriage shortly after. I know in my heart that there are many positive reasons why it wouldn’t have been the best time for me to be pregnant (my husband wouldn’t have been with me during pregnancy and may have missed the birth for one), but literally every girl I’m close to is pregnant or just had a baby. Most of them have become pregnant after their 1st cycle trying or not trying at all. I feel like I have no one to talk to about how badly I want a baby and how painful it is to watch all these other women becoming pregnant. BOTH of my best friends found out they’re pregnant in the SAME WEEKEND. That still feels like a cruel joke. It makes it even more difficult that my husband and I have to wait another 6 months for him to come home from deployment before TTC again, AND I just miss him. Best of luck to everyone who has miscarried and is TTC again. Xoxo