My s/o and I decide we aren’t going to tell people when I go into labor for numerous reasons and my midwife said it’s better not to tell anyone so your not getting constant calls and texts anyways so when people ask my birth plan I tell them that then I find the people I tell they message me everyday seeing if I reply almost because they know I won’t be telling anyone it’s almost weird because their moms themselves lol. You think theyd be understanding ! I know they mean well but its almost too much