should i break up with him?

okay guys, i have a problem.

my boyfriend and i have been together for

2 years and a couple of months.

when we got together i was young and stupid, (still am but anywayyy) and i said i’d be his girlfriend because i wanted someone who’d want me.

anyway, over the two years i did end up falling for him, and we were very happy together.

we had a great sex life, we were completely infatuated with each other.

but then, slowly, he stopped wanting me. stopped wanting to touch me, need me. it was like he had me and that was it, he’d just gotten slack and content. i don’t know about you, but i want a man who will surprise me and make me feel like i’m the most important girl in the whole world; someone who will fight for me and tell me everyday why and that they love me.

he stopped doing that. never said i love you first, never said i was pretty, or beautiful. never takes me out, never tries to win me over.

yes, i’m complaining and i shouldn’t be,

but i’m not happy. i’m just... not. i should be happy with what he can give me, but it’s just... not enough anymore.

yes, i’ve tried to talk to him about it. but every time i bring it up, he gets defensive, upset, and really all he just says is “i don’t know”

right, so... he just doesn’t know why he doesn’t want me? how does that work?

should i break up with him?

i’m scared to lose him though, i don’t really have anyone else.

what should i do?