when did you show with your first? and when with your second?

i popped pretty late with my daughter. I remember being annoyed that I only looked fat at 20 weeks. and then of course I wished I could take it back bc the bigger bump was so uncomfortable 🙄 almost 9 weeks with baby #2 and I'm getting anxious about starting to show. I was never able to get the weight off after my daughter so it might be hard for others to see beyond the pooch but I can already feel my uterus expanding. work was not too friendly last time and we're announcing on social media around valentines day so I'll have to tell them before then, but will I even make it a few more weeks..?