:( ripped???

Question

i think my bf ripped me during sex today. it didn’t hurt that much at first but now it’s hurting so bad like if it’s cut or something :( it’s only my 3rd time having sex

Answer

This happens to me all the time! It would happen all the time when I first started having sex and now it happens when I haven’t had sex in a while (like more than a week.) I talked to my gynecologist about it and she recommended using silicone lube. Even if you think you can get wet enough on your own, still try lube because I get very wet and it still happens to me sometimes. Also make sure to ease his penis in and that he doesn’t go in too fast because that also can cause tearing (at least in my experience.) But tl;dr don’t worry too much! It should stop hurting in a couple of days and as long as you take it slow in the beginning and use lube you should be able to minimize the risk of it happening again

:( ripped???

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