I have a guy situation I need help with... so me and this guy have been pretty good friends for a couple of years now, and he’s the type of person that I genuinely enjoy our friendship, we have the same sense of humour, a lot of things in common, and our personalities just click. We have hooked up a couple of times. The first time happened after we talked about what we we’re and the possibility of starting a relationship, and immediately after he left for a couple of months for work abroad. When he came back nothing happened because he just wasn’t into it anymore, so we went back to just being good friends, and I got over what happened before he left. A thing to keep in mind though is he didn’t talk to me about his feelings he kinda just never responded to me when I would ask him to hangout and wouldn’t really acknowledge me in a group setting, so me getting over him was basically a guessing game for a couple of weeks, then me realizing I had been dropped from him thinking of me like that. A couple weekends ago we both got super drunk and ended up hooking up again. We haven’t talked about it, and I don’t really feel like we need to talk about it because I’m not uncomfortable afterwards and we kinda just went back to normal the day after. I’m not scared of getting feelings because the way he treated me last time when stuff like this was going on wasn’t good, and I know I wouldn’t do that to myself, let myself have feelings for him again. But I am still super attracted to him and am down for some “fun” with him. Because he’s my friend I think I would feel super comfortable about it, and I wouldn’t worry as much about it ruining our friendship since we’ve bounced back and got back to normal before. Idk if 1) I should even be thinking of that with him considering how much our friendship means to me, no matter how much I’d be down for it. Am I just being stupid? And 2) how to go about talking to him about it because he’s a super uncomfortable person when it comes to confrontation.