Sex is messy!! Let’s talk about it

So I finally convinced my husband that while I’m on the pill and taking it efficiently, he has no reason to generally fear getting me pregnant. (We’re moving to Korea in a few months, so.. bad time to start trying but we’ll get there)

So he finally started ejaculating inside of me when we have sex..

I don’t mind the feeling or that constant “ooze” but my husband is having a hard tome getting past the mess it causes when we have sex.

Sex has always been messy. I get that. But what are some ways you ladies deal with that mess (without using a condom).

Is it just not a big deal? Do you guys just LET it be messy? Are we thinking too much on it? IS THERE A CLEANER WAY?!