so my husband got insanely drunk last night and confessed that he hasn't been having sex with me in a while cause he thinks he's not good enough for me .. I keep assuring him that he's perfect for me and that I love it .. but he still won't have sex with me .. I feel like there's somethi g about me that's not good enough for him though .. I mean, for the past 5 months or so, anytime we've had sex, he wouldn't do ANY of the work .. It's either I get on top or he gets oral .. And he never gives me oral .. He does it literally like 2 times a year .. I don't know what I'm supposed to say or do anymore .. how did my sex life get so dull ? it used to have so much passion but now it's just tiring .. what should I do ? any advise ? 😔