me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now.. And out of those two years, I've only ever gotten one gift from him. And that was from Valentine's day last year. he's never gotten me a Christmas gift. A birthday gift. he said he dosen't believe in anniversary's unless it's for marriage. So boyfriend girlfriend isn't a big enough thing for him to celebrate... HOWEVER. every year on his birthday I spend upwards to $60 at a time. Christmas this year I spent $100 on him... Valentine's day I go out of my way to get/ make him something... I've never gotten flowers from him becuase "they're useless" I've never gotten a surprise anything from him..ever... Am I just selfish for feeling like it's one sided? I know material things mean nothing. But I put so much thought and time into his gifts. And I love how exited he gets when he opens them. I just.. I guess I just get dissaplinted he dosen't think of me like that..... this past Christmas. he got gifts for my brother and sister in law. My whole family got a gift from him...everyone But me...