Back story::: This is my 4th. I have all girls. No nursery to decorate.. I went gender neutral on all equipment just a year ago with my last. My seasons won’t match up for girl clothes anyways... so clothes, diapers & wipes are all we really need. But I’m a planner. I’m trying so hard to let this one be a surprise.. but goodness the temptation. I have a friend who does u/s in our office and it’s sooo hard. Help me stay strong or at best make a final decision.