I don’t want to go!
My fiancé manages a branch of a national bank and one of his associates is a couple weeks behind me in her pregnancy. Her shower is coming up this Sunday and I really don’t want to go. I won’t know anyone there and it’s girls only so my fiancé won’t be coming with me. I’m extremely uncomfortable in social situations where I’m expected to interact with people I don’t know. My fiancé knows this, but doesn’t really understand. Evites were sent out, but it was sent to my fiancé FOR me, not even TO me, which is a separate issue I have for this event. I told him weeks ago I wasn’t going, but he said I always say that initially, but then go so even as late as today he told her I’d be there. I’m angry that he’s putting me in this uncomfortable position because I know it means a lot to him, but I don’t know these people and I’m not even friends with his associate. Weeks ago I said I’d send a gift with him to work, but I wouldn’t be going.