my baby mama drama

Darlene

im 24 i have no kids and I've been with this guy for 7 months. he has a 1 year old with a girl a little younger then me and hes 32. she just learned of my exsistence about a month ago and is BARELY embracing i exist. She constantly is talking shit to him and i feel like i have to deal with the anger and sadness she leaves behind. she won't let him see his son...i really love this guy and i dont know how to deal with this.