My bf and parties

Marissa

Hi ladies, my boyfriend and I haven’t been on good terms for a couple of weeks now. I don’t like the fact that he drinks a lot. His friends are all wild and he goes out with them still after he drops me off at home from our dates. Last night he dropped me off and I told him how I felt about his drinking and partying. He was just silent. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with him drinking and then driving home alone so late. I wasn’t saying he can’t have fun..but seriously every week and weekend he has to drink and go out like that? So last night when he dropped me off I was fine and I didn’t care that he went out. I woke up right now at 4 a.m. with a bad feeling. I look at his Snapchat story and he is drinking heavily and he’s at a party and shows all these girls and doing stuff. And I’m furious. He lied saying there would be no girls. He told me it was something chill. A couple buddies and beers. No it was a damn party. He says he doesn’t feel comfortable with me going out but he can go and do that!? I’m shaking. I’m so angry. What do I say to him?