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Me and my boyfriend started having sex. During, he lost his erection. So he had me give him a blow job. He got hard and then lost it again?! I started crying. Because it either wasn't good enough or he doesn't find me attractive. What does it mean? This has never happened to me or us. It wasn't even 10 minutes.

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It doesn't necessarily mean anything, and it almost definitely has nothing to do with you.
Sometimes men just lose their erections. It could be because he's tired, or stressed, or focusing too much on pleasing you, or had some random thought about needing to buy something at the store, or really just about anything. If it's not a regular occurrence, then just shrug it off, be patient, and better luck next time.

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It doesn’t mean either of those things... sometimes it’s just happens. I understand you can feel like it’s you but it’s really not. This happened to my husband only a few times in our 6years together and it was usually because he was under stress, nervous of performance (while we were ttc) or just having an off day... try not to be too hard on him I’m sure he feels bad too

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Was it the first time? I’ve had this happen to me before. It sucks that it’s made you feel like he thinks you’re not attractive. Here are the two most likely causes. 1: He’s nervous, nerves can get the best of a man when trying to have sex. Happened the first time with my ex. We tried for over an hour before HE cried. 2: he is masturbating too much. If a guy is getting himself off everyday and then trying to have sex with you that’s the wrong move. Talk to him about it.

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