dirty men

is it really such a deal breaker to ask them to shower?! I wanted to do the hibbidy dibbidy last night w/ my bf but he hadnt showered all day from work. i took my shower and told him we could do it if he showers real quick (my vagina health is important) and he just went to bed and cuddled me. Kinda made me feel like rejected 💩 too, but more so disrespected since he doesnt think my health is worth it. He is well aware of wby I ask him to shower beforehand, ive explained it numerous times as im prone to uti's