Does anal hurt?

Question

I need some advice because my boyfriend really wants to do anal but Im scared it's going to hurt. Any tips for my first time?

Answer

make sure you're very relaxed. start with fingers, increasing the number til you can take more until u are completely ready and comfortable. use loads of lube and most importantly just relax!!! do not use numbing lube as you need to be able to know when it hurts, it shouldnt be super painful if you have taken it slowly. i read online that relaxing and slightly pushing out like you are having a poo (sorry too much info) really helps as it actually helps relax it and it defo worked for me!!! just most importantly take it slow, relax and don't force anything if it hurts, loads of lube!!

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I will be honest it can hurt, if you are not relaxed and are quite tense and thinking about it quite a lot then it can be a painful experience. But, I have found that as long as I am relaxed and comfortable it is pain-free and enjoyable. I would say do it when you feel confident and comfortable, that way your body will be relaxed too and it should be relatively pain less! 😊

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It is quite uncomfortable when easing into it. Lube is definitely vital when having anal for beginners. If you want to take baby steps, you can always start off with anal plugs. They come in different sizes from small to xxl. You can increase the size once you feel like you’re comfortable enough. 🗣 lube lube lube!!!

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get an anal kit and slowly work up to it. Took us about a month for me to be able to actually take his penis.