belly button/boy friend

so i was really excited to get my belly button repeirced, i had to take it out after a bad four-wheeler accident last year.

my boyfriend just saw it and told me i gained too much weight and i should just take it out cause no one wants to see my tummy anyway. im really selfconscience about my weight especially now because i have put on weight so i just want to know what yall think.cause i dont wanna be lookin stupid thinkin i look akay amd then not look okay.

i really am trying to lose weight but its just hard and i know thats a dumb excuse. but i am trying and i feel like hes being insensitice but i dont wanna over react....

UPDATE:thank you all soo much i did dump him amd am doing great. i met a new guy who always makes me feel beautiful and i am so thankful for all your commits. also on top of the 180 puonds i dropped when i dripped him i lost 5 pounds :)