sexual pleasure?

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I've been having sex for 10 years. But penetration just isn't good for me. I have never had an orgasm by penetration alone. I always have to rub my clit. It has made a lot of the guys I have been with self conscience. is this a normal thing or have I just been doing something wrong for the past 10 years?

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Extremely normal for females to only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. I am the same makes foreplay the best 😊

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I can’t come with penetration only but my SO knows this and will press deep into me so that his pelvis is right at my clit and just rock his body up and down (rubbing my clit) to make me cum. It feels so good. He knows me so well. Other times he will just raise up so I can get my fingers down there to rub my clit. We have been together long enough to know just what does it for each other. We probably don’t even have sex for more than 10 minutes but we are both completely satisfied because we know each other so well (7-1/2 years)

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Im the same way, one of my exes literally yelled at me after sex (after he cum) because  it was my fault that I couldn’t cum because he have a big penis and all the woman’s he’s been with always cum with penetration only. Of course i broke up with him that day. Who in their right mind would stay with someone who snaps at me because I can’t cum with just his penis? Crazy how some men think they are god and want to make us feel bad. Nothing is wrong with us. And we shouldn’t feel ashamed or self conscious about that. Im reading now a book called  “the elusive orgasm” because I do want to be able to do it but not for the man, but for myself and expand my possibilities to feel pleasure.

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Totally normal, I can’t either. I think something like 35% of women can’t reach orgasm through penetration alone. I really had to constantly remind my boyfriend that it wasn’t his fault and it didntmean that what he was doing didnt feel good. Gave us great opportunities to explore :)

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@tessa this is the most recent study done in September 2017.

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n o r m a l

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ditto. get a wand. changed my whole life

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I am the same exact same way

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