I’m in a Happy LDR Been Together since 12.17.16

Happily in loved with this beautiful young lady she’s 18 , 17 we’ve been together since 2016 it was rough very very tough as well. Me living in California and her living in Washington which was 1,000+ miles away from me it was a battle on building trust but we were able to build it together as a team .We talked for almost about 4 months before we ever got to meet each other ,we got to meet each other on September 17 of 2016 for the very first time ever after talking for so long it was such an amazing feeling and moment ,She didn’t let me have sex with her for 7 months well how do I say this after that September night I didn’t get to see her for 7 months we had gotten together at December 17 ,it was ehh complicated cause I asked her out through a phone , timed passed and Her prom was in may of 2017 , So I took a greyhound bus to head to Tacoma, Washington , which was 20 minutes away from where she lived at . I sat in that bus for 22 hours thinking of her and about her and prom at that time I had barely turned 17 she was barely 18 . I went to her home , her state met her parents for the first time met her family it was beautiful couldn’t ask for anything much more better then that we went to prom and well the night of prom was when she had lost her virginity to me and well which was out first time ever having sex. I spent 2 weeks there it was a time of my life I will never forget. She was a senior and I was a Jr at the time , She was gonna graduate in July so I was already back in Fresno, California this was a few months after her prom and well I told her I wanted to be present while she Walked the stage and received her diploma and well exactly as i said that I did that I had booked a round trip on the greyhound to go over there 2 days before her graduation I was only supposed to be there for 1 week but with me going I had sat again another 21 hours just to be there for her graduation and well I made that wish and dream come true I was there and let’s just say that I was suppose to leave the next week but instead I stayed for about 1 month and half almost 40 days that I spent with her and it was a beautiful experience at that time we were having a lot of sexual inter course and without protection but I had told her I wanted to have a child with her we talked and said yea it’s too early but we tried anyways and nothing,nothing and nothing .. and just in the last week of my stay there I had thought she did get pregnant because she didn’t get her period but came to find out she wasn’t and I left pretty sad. Every time I left her side it felt like if I was abandoning her and leaving her behind but I always held my tears back every time at the station I had to say goodbye cause she would always cry and I would there was a reason why I would try not to Cause or else I would of never left.. Time passed and well we where having a lot of trouble in our relationship we where what about 8 to 7 months in and we were having daily arguments until I broke up apart and well we stopped talking for about a week but I couldn’t help it but hear her voice cause i was so used to hearing her beautiful sleeping sound or hear her snore lol , anyways I wanted her back and she clearly had told me if you want me back so bad like you say you do come over here and ask me out again face to face this time , this was about around October 1st and well I told her if that’s what she wanted and she said well it’s the only way we we’ll get back together . Me at the time I was doing pretty bad in school I was in my senior year behind 70 to 90 credits you needed about 230 credits to graduate I only had about 115 . She told me and told me not to drop out but I dropped out cause I was so focused more on fixing my relationship with her instead of fixing my future I dropped out left school , booked a greyhound bus ticket around the 19 of October. I left my home on the 20th got there the 21 , it was weird cause we weren’t together but that energy we had had for each other was still there ,the love ,the heart rush , everything was still there and there was only one thing to do which was ask her out . In my head I thought of an surprise previously on the bus I had told her I had a surprise for her but it was gonna come when she least expected it . I was supposed to be there for 15 days , every day I woke up at about 6 am and drove her to work and picked her from work every day , one day she was getting out early and it was a perfect day to surprise her , so me being me I went and bought her a promise ring & a promise necklace and went and bought about 50 dollars worth of different flowers from VONS I went home and I put the flowers all together my own self , I set the flowers one by each place by place where they had to go just so it was perfect for the best girl alive on earth . Crazy part is that she had got out 30 minutes early so I hurried and fixed everything up cleaned her room and laid the two boxes of jewelry on the flowers , I went picked her up she was happy to see her and I was ultra happy to see her I was nerve wrecked cause I always tell her everything even surprises and well I was able to hold my tongue until we got home . We get to her apartment which was where she was living with her parents , I blind folded her and brought her to her room and there I took the blind fold off and she was in shock ,she was more surprised about the surprise then what was in front of her, seeing her laugh smile and say omg and so many other things it warmed my heart to the point where I new i wanted to be with her forever . When she opened the box for the ring her eyes opened up and she even cried more that moment i opened the other box and it was a matching necklace, that moment there I asked her Samantha will you be my girlfriend and she had said yes and from there and then I’ve never been more inloved with this girl then ever before that night was beautiful we went out to dinner and have a magnificent night, the 15 days were almost and it already the beginning November so I decided to skip leaving and I stayed , I stayed for Halloween & Thanksgiving & was there for Christmas but I left 3 days before our anniversary. In Titian I had stayed there for 3 months almost correct me if I’m wrong and well there was some family problems not with her parents but with a sibling of hers and well I Just wasn’t liking the way it was going so I had chosen to leave but me and sam had both made out decision on me leaving before Christmas and our anniversary. By luck that month I had came to find out my aunt from California was in pasco Washington and was visiting family that i never new i had . On the 15 of December they drove me out there to pasco and let me just say it was one of the worst days ever , all the time I spent there I became so attached to this girl then ever by the way we were still trying on the pregnancy thing well we got there and it was just sad we went to go get food and the foot wasn’t even delicious cause just to think it was gonna be my last meal within your presence well all tears and emotions set to the side I hugged her tight and told her you were gonna be able to see me again soon I promise and well she begin to cry I told her i loved her and this was my first love and my first girlfriend ever same was for her . I watched her leave in the truck a few weeks later she took two pregnancy test and it came out that she was pregnant , she went to the doctors to make sure and well being there she told me what was going on tbh I was the happiest man alive I couldn’t get over the fact she was maybe pregnant and the moment the doctor came back and told her she was 4 weeks pregnant I was speechless and begun to cry while at the same time I was stuck and frozen ahah I couldn’t explain the amount of happiness that was running through me even if I tried to explain . Today It is February 9 and she’s coming to see me on the Valentine’s Day we will be able to spend a whole week with each other and to top it off we will be spending both of our birthday together mines on February 18 and hers on February 22 and to finalize it she’s 16 weeks pregnant ,iam happy and satisfied with where my life’s going right now I’ve fallen deeply inloved with her and wouldn’t change for nothing I will always love her today we are happy and proud to think we are gonna be young parents but anything is possible in life and just Know Soon I will be putting a ring on her finger god give us many many years I love you Samantha can’t wait until I get to see you hold our little baby ❤️👶🏼.

- Sincerely Elian❤️12.17.16