so my boyfriend's mom is coming over 3 weeks after my baby has been born and I still feel like she shouldn't be allowed to comeover and my boyfriend should respect my wishes. so here's the back story when I was in labor she was talking shit to my family and friends in the waiting room about me. she was like she has her sisters in there but me and her father are not in there and kept complaining to everyone how she wasn't in there. then she peeked in while I was still propped up and getting sewn up which pissed me off because obviously I didn't have you in the room becaus because I wasn't comfortable with you seeing my private parts then she goes on to tell people in the waiting room how my house was a mess which my house is always clean the only thing was I had some baby clothes still not put away and clothes in my bathroom on the floor from taking a shower the night before. mind you she was only at my house