So to make a very long story a little shorter, his father and I were together for 2.5 years. We had a bumpy road and argued quite a bit. But, we agreed we wanted to work it all out and get married and have kids. Well, surprise, I got pregnant last January. Our son is 5 months old now and has qualities of both me and his father. Those no denying he looks like both of us.

So, about 9 months ago we broke up (I was 4 months pregnant) he slept with someone else while saying he’s trying to work things out with me. I’m pissed, I contact her and we team up against him. Then, 2 months after that, he tries to contact me and work things out. The very first time we talk in 2 months, he slaps me across the face for lying. There is no excuse for hitting me, but that’s why he says he did it. So, I cower and give in and become vulnerable to him. We move in together a month later in August.

The lady he was sleeping with before contacted me and said they were still sleeping together, even though we were back together and I was now 8 months pregnant. I don’t tell him she reached out to me. I was afraid of him ladies. He had a horrible temper

We have the baby in September and we are doing okay up until November. He had texted that lady and she told him she contacted me back in August. He’s upset I lied to him. He went through my phone and saw I had signed up for a dating website while we were broken up and I kept getting emails. I never spoke to anyone on there I just forgot to delete it. He then assumes I have been cheating. He looks through my messages, my emails, my Facebook and Snapchat. There is no evidence of me cheating. Because frankly, I am not a cheater. I hate people who cheat.

So we break up, he kicks me out of the apartment. We decide to get counseling through the church. We only go for 2 sessions and then the pastor says we should be good on our own now.

A month passes and he is still treating me like shit. Talking down to me, controlling me, making it seem like everything was my fault and I’m over here trying to take care of our son while living at my moms and at the same time losing my job because I had a hard time focusing with everything going on.

So last week, he tells me he went and got our son tested to see if he was really his. HE GOT A PATERNITY TEST WITHOUT TELLING ME YALL!! Granted I know I didn’t cheat on him, but WTF is his problem??!!

Side note, he is a narcissist. Every article and research paper I have read on narcissistic personality disorder describes him so perfectly. (I have 2 degrees in psychology)

I’ll post some screenshots for y’all to see how this man talks to me.

And don’t worry, I’ve already moved on to a better man and I am seeing a lawyer next week.

Dream bed 😍