Is it bad to be 13 and not a virgin?

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I was 12 when I lost my virginity to my now ex boyfriend. It was a mistake I made thinking I was in love with him.

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Oops meant to say YESSS

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If you thought you were ready then its totally okay, there's no perfect age to lose your virginity!

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In nature, you’re technically (physically) ready whenever you get your period. So if you felt mentally ready (which is the most important thing), then of course it is okay. If not, then no and perhaps you have been taken advantage of. You should probably talk to a trusted adult.

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well misses, i feel like when you are mature enough to do that kind of stuff and you are ready for the consequences for sex, well oh well. I get that you thought you were in love and i dont judge.

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Ppl will say to each their own but to me YES

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my best friend lost hers when she was 11! she was in sixth grade!!

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Omg you lost your virginity at 12???!!! That’s too early!!!

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Not everyone loses their virginity to the person they end up spending the rest of your life with. Although I’m 13 and I lost my virginity at 13. My boyfriend and I really do feel like we are more than in love but from what you said in this post it’s possible that my bf and I think we are. Don’t think too much about my advice because I am not 13 and I’m sure Idk anything compared to someone who’s 30 but I think it’s be helpful to state my opinion. Personally I think you and your partner have to be mentally ready, and genuinely want it as an expression of love. My bf and I have loved each other 4 months before we had sex and there got to a point where we were so madly in love that we wanted more and to take our relationship to the next level. I find that to be ideal. If someone just wants you to lose their virginity or just for sex in general I don’t think that’s a good idea to lose your virginity in that case. I don’t think there’s an age attached to when is a good time to lose your virginity. It should be about genuine love but hey what do I know I’m 13 lol

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12!!!!!!

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i lost mine at 12 sis, ther eis nothing to worry about. im 15 and still dont regret it. to me it wasnt something all that important, i gave it to someone i love and he gave his to me and we are still living our best lives together. it was just something that saved our relationship and gave us something to hold onto when times got rough. it wasnt like a trap it was more of a memory that is hard to let go of. it makes everything so much more worth it in our relationship but yes we were young and dumb but it was the best decision i ever made honestly. its part of the reason me and him are still together today. but just because you lost it doesnt mean you are a bad person, shit half the girls i know say "they were born without a hymen" which is also possible but dont feel like you have to be mad at yourself or feel like a bad person because of it. shit happens, you were wrong but you are also human and we all make mistakes. its okay, just let it go and stop worrying about it. its not like you have to tell anyone or be someone you arent because of it. be yourself and dont let that weigh you down.

Is it bad to be 13 and not a virgin?

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