Hi guys so I’m talking to this guy for a little while and he’s been very open and honest with me from the start. I really appreciate honesty but I mean who doesn’t. I’ve been with 4 guys sexually and he told me that he’s a virgin. I would of never expected it because not to sound rude but he’s good looking and about to be 20 and in today’s culture people just automatically assume a guy like that wouldn’t be a virgin. We’re supposed to go on a date this Friday to Cheesecake Factory and then watch a movie so I know nothing will happen because theres no place for it to happen. Maybe a kiss but nothing more. I really do like him and I want to start it off right, I don’t want it to be another hook up but I’m also really worried and skeptical because it’s a big deal to take someone’s virginity. He has mentioned and dropped hints about it saying it could happen but not on the first date. I like how he doesn’t see sex as just a causal thing because it’s supposed to be very intimate. My biggest fear is let’s say after a while it does happen and what if he was just trying to lose it and then move on. I’m tired of the whole dating and talking to a bunch of guys and it all being meaningless, I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship again but I have my guard up. Does anyone have any experiences of being with a virgin man when you’re not?