🚫Fiancée Not interested in sex? Help 🚫

Question

Ok so this is hard for me to talk about with close friends or family because I don’t want my relationship judged. My fiancée and I have been together for a year and 1/2, we don’t have children and have lived together for 10 months. My sex drive is higher than his and I find we go 2 weeks without sex and he could care less. On his behalf he works 13 hour days and is overweight so I understand he is tired and doesn’t feel good about himself. He used to come on to me like kiss my neck, whisper in my ear (that’s something I love) but lately there’s no sexual stuff. Yes he grabs my ass and boobs all the time and is very affectionate with kisses and hugs and telling me how gorgeous I am and that I adores me and loves me more than anything. BUT I want sex! I want crazy passionate sex with making out and all the jazz! I’m not it has to be exciting all the time but I need sex more than twice a month. We’ve had this discussion numerous times and he always says he’s tired...or he will take care of it...he will work harder. I’m at a loss. I want to marry this man and I want to fix this. I’m not giving up but I feel alone

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Why don't you do those things to/for him? Go up to him, "Baby, you're so handsome. I'm proud of you for working so hard." Feel on him, see if he's into it. Give him a small blow, see if he's into it. Slowly take off your clothes, see if he gets in it, lol. Take it slow, babe.

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Hey girl! There is no need to give up here. There could be a few underlining issues that are causing his lack of drive. (I don’t believe in throwing a good thing away or giving up for no reason)
So first things first, depression can cause and can be a symptom of things. (My husband is depressed and I have struggled with clinical depression for over 12 years) 
I have found that diet can be a huge factor in recovering from depressive episodes and recovering sexual function in men.
He might have a hormone imbalance.  He’s tired so exercise isn’t gonna make him feel too great. Rest and recovery is important. I recommend the Bulletproof diet which I have used since 2012 and can attest to its benefits and I recommend checking out this dr on YouTube named Dr. Eric berg .. search through his weight loss vids and sexual function vids and hormone vids.
Basically, sit down with him and ask him how he feels, ask if he’s okay and see if he’s depressed. He’s going to tell you he is tired and more I’m sure. Tell him you want to help him and that you are putting you both on a healthy diet together and encourage and help him to recover. Let him know his tiredness might be from sugar crashing and such, show him the dr berg vids on ketosis and healthy diet or which ever you find describe your situation. Tell him you want to help him feel good and you want to feel good so you will do it together. Then you just gotta do it 💪🏻👊🏻
Good luck. Feel free to ask questions :)

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You should talk to him about it. Either you can reinforce the idea you find him sexy as hell or you can together work out how he can lose some weight to get his confidence back. Plus he might not realise you want it more. Or you can just pounce on him and do all those things. That's what I do all the time! 😝

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He's not changing himself. Either get used to it or get a new man. 
Or, look at his diet and change him. Overweight men have excess estrogen which results in a lack of sex drive. Get him to lose weight. While your at it, switch to hormone free dairy/milk product and meats. Animals are commonly given estrogen to increase kill production and overall growth. It's then on their milk and meat causes his estrogen levels to rise, and his testerone to fall. Which equals lower sex drive.

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