So this is a pretty long story i guess. Me and my husband met when we were pretty young and he drank a lot when I met him. It didn't bother me till we had our first daughter and he would stay up drinking and pass out on the sofa. He stopped coming to bed and lied about finishing work late so he could drink. He even started drink driving on a regular occasion! So I left him, I moved out and we separated. At first he was in total denial and said I was totally delusional. But after a couple of months he came to terms with it and cut down massively to maybe one or two beers a week. After about 6 months of him showing me he had changed I took him back. Everything was absolutely perfect. It's been a year since we got back together and I'm now pregnant with our second baby. Sadly he's started drinking more and more. Using 'watching tv' or 'a rough day at work' as an excuse to sit downstairs on a nighttime and drink. He promised me when we got back together that he would never drink on week nights again Now it's maybe 4 or 5 nights a week and he's in complete denial again saying I'm controlling him and apparently he never drinks in the week! He has for the last month at least now. I really just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to leave but he absolutely refuses to hear me out or accept help. It's pushing us so far apart I can't even stand to kiss him because he smells so strongly of alcohol most days.