I want kids. So very much. But I can barely afford to feed myself currently and my husband and I are filing for bankruptcy and my hormones make it so hard to get out of bed let alone work my full time job. My sex drive is nonexistent and it pisses me off because my husband is so hot but I just can't for some reason. I've been on the same birth control (nuvaring) since 2011 and this only recently became an issue. I feel like my best option is to just monitor my cycles and not do bc at all.. But I can't afford to care for a child right now. I don't know what to do... Does anyone else only use fertility awareness as their primary method of preventing pregnancy? I need advice bigtime please.